Deeply touched by your resilience. A woman of substance in an insecure world, who has chosen to be true to herself till the end. Hat's off to you. With deep respect, my prayers and wishes.

I am a mom of 3. I've never written to any one before but feel assured & secured after visiting your blog (only way to reach u). I feel safe in it. I admire your Courage/Strength/Words. Want 2 let u know, good work & u rock.

Hi Heeraji, I am just messaging to say you that I have grown up watching your movies. Your words have so much of honesty. Wishing u a great future.

I went through your biography. I have been your fan. I wish you goodness after all you have gone through. May our Creator bless you.

Dear Heera, deeply inspired by your very thought-provoking quote, "Courage is not about showing up on battlegrounds, it is about showing up in your life." I believe in this myself as well, having learnt a few lessons the hard way in life. God bless you.

Loved you in Idayam. Your simple presentation touched me. Now the simplicity of your thoughts moves me with its power. Rare quality. God bless you Heera.

Hey there, I bet you get a million messages from strangers, but nevertheless, from aesthetics to analytical, awesome blog. FLUFFLESS.

I admire the quietness and lack of sensationalism behind your interviews. Each chapter stays with me. Thank you, my friend.

Madam, I would like to greatly appreciate how you write with compassion and courage and not simply about compassion and courage. My best wishes to you for a happy life.

Your words are truly enlightening especially, greed forces one to cave in, to become less than and remain a victim of one's own lack of self worth. It does not let one blossom to one's true potential.

Hi Heera, I love they way you have expressed your thoughts, and emotions and feelings in words. I appreciate your sense of empathy and your love for life.

You are telling my story of abuse. Only difference, I am a man. Thanks Ms. Heera.

Nearly 2 decades ago I approached you in a public place. You treated me with great respect and kindness. Recently I found your site, and it reflects everything I experienced. I am sorry for your pain and loss. Your life has great value. Nandri.

Idayam touched our hearts, but your life moves our lives. New respect for you Ms. Heera. You are powerful. Shine on.

Sorry for using this form to communicate something that's irrelevant for what this form stands for. I wanted to say that you are true inspiration for lot of us, great job, happy 2012.

Hi Heera, I am very touched by your website and messages. I appreciate what you are doing. I am glad to know that women are getting help. I have seen the dark side of people after I got married.

Dear Heera, I am very delighted to see your website for the first time. Thank you very much for all your support to everyone of us. I used to treat u like a heroine, but you actually are a good supporter.

I chanced upon your website. I must tell you that I was deeply moved to read your biography and I surmise that it has been written very well. It is indeed wonderful to recognize the zeal you have for crusading Human Rights and Environmental issues. Keep up the good work. Many thanks.

For a long time I was a victim of abuse in a rich family. Thanks to you now I am a survivor.

To watch fun movies is easy, but to watch a documentary like Bulgaria's forgotten children is really very hard, very painful. I see now why it is important to watch such programs. It is helping me become a better person.

I don't know why I am typing this message. But I would like to say that I am a great fan of the latter part of your life. Happy to see you having a fruitful & meaningful life. Keep Going!

Madam, you come across as a wonderful personality. Your contents have made me change for the better, my opinions and thinking about women and film actors, I have learnt to treat them with respect.

U are not just an actress, I thought...U r great.

I am an educated woman, a survivor of repeated rape. I find strength in your boldness and thoughts. Thank you.

I am a school teacher. Great information from personalities. Please do more interviews Madam.

Hi Heera, I happened to watch Idayam today and was wondering where are u are now. I googled to find more about u until I discover this blog. Believe me u r having a great blog. It is very interesting.

Hi Heera, I came across your website and got to know you more as a person as opposed to a face I have occasionally seen on-screen. Your biography is a tale of inner strength. Keep well.

My dear Heera, your life gives me hope. You have passed god’s test amazingly and with grace. We are with you.

Hi, I am on a pursuit of truth and meaning in manner not so different from you. Although I am a scholar of science, your words about breaking free from shackles have given me strength. Thank you.

Dear Ms Heera, I read about you. Very touching. Well, get back to India. So much to do here. Think. Ponder. All the best.

Quietly powerful. Powefully purposeful. Congrats.

Heeraji Namaste. Now I understand why you listen to your soul. In initial stages I too would have told you not to speak. Fact is I am following you for your courage, and not weakness and lies. Fantastic.

Hello Heera, Read your bio, & am so glad you found the courage to be yourself. I know, I had my walk in fire in '92. I hope the sadness is for that time & now you are free & joyous.

I am a die-hard fan of you during my college days. Great to see the website and quotes and pictures.

Miss Heera, I went thru your blog - was filled with deep insights and thoughts on various aspects of life. Thanks.

Hi Heera, I just want to appreciate you for all the work you are doing. Generally Indian women hesitate to come out and talk about male domination and abuse. I really admire your work. Keep it up.

We are the living links in a life force that moves and plays around and through us, binding the deepest soils with the farthest stars. I appreciate your biography. Thanks.

Animal lover, nature lover, children lover = lover of life. Many, many blessings.

What a brave woman you are, Heera. I find strength in your honest voice and have shared your blog posts with my girlfriends. Thank you.

I admire your pride in your Indian identity.

I reached your blog by chance. No doubt you are a beautiful woman, but what shines through is your inner voice, your thoughts are powerful and engaging. And yes, beautifully presented. Congratulations and good luck.

Found you by accident. Feel your pain. Feel your courage. Feel your purpose. Our prayers are with you. Best of luck.

Thank you for making your emotions accessible. New respect for you.

The eyes are a reflection of soul. Your eyes are kind and deep, but sad also. My family and I keep you in our prayers. Thank you for your honesty and strength.

We all know you as ‘Idayam Heera’. It is a fitting description for you, as you speak from the heart. Keep it up dear Heera.

Your thoughts are unique and tell the truth about life. Most of us don’t have the guts to express, even with our families. I am trying in small steps. Thanks for your courage.

Your truth and tenacity forces me to question the meaning of my life. Merci.

I see your character through your interviews; there is equality in gender, age, class and religion. Blessings to a sincere soul. I pray all your dreams come true. Many thanks.

My daughter was abused by her ex-husband and family. Before we would have thought what people will think. When we see public figure like you be brave, we also become strong. We support our daughter and love her more.

Good reading on the personal matters. Choice of words are excellent. Everyday becomes a learning process. No hope is lost as long as there is sunrise tomorrow. All the best.

I stumbled upon your page while searching for something else. Your biography is well written and actually positive sounding. Hope you do more in your life with the experiences you have had. All the best!

I can’t imagine being in your shoes, but I can celebrate your strength. God bless you.

Your life story reminds me of my late grandfather. He used to tell us that angels fly close to protect the good hearted from evil. I have started teaching the same to my children. Thank you Heera, for sharing your rawness and courage.

Intriguing thoughts. Your expressions very much rhyme with my own experiences. Always thought you were the most beautiful actress. No surprise how deep a person you are. Very beautiful.

Dear Heera, admire the combination of your spunk and thoughtfulness. The best awaits you. With love.

Hi Heera, just wanted to let you know that I love your deep reflections on issues that people from the Asian cultures shy away from talking openly. Keep up the good job.

As the head of the family, I am proud to say that we have stopped gossiping. Thanks for your powerful articles.

Hi, I like your website. Also the interviews with various leaders are really nice. Do continue same. Wish You All the Very Best.

So many illuminating thoughts through so much abuse, how? It is only god’s blessing. Thank you Heera for being so honest and vulnerable. You are part of our life now and forever.

Blown away by your transparency and vulnerable power. Who would have thought the glamorous film star had this deep side. You don’t rock; you are the ROCK. Thanks Heera

Hi Heera, Have gone through your website and impressed that life has shown you a more stronger path and a spot where maybe you were meant to be. It’s nice to see strong Indian women like you.

Your simplicity and honesty are admirable.

Hello Heera. I accidently had a chance to get into this website. I am speechless. I never ever thought Heera would be such a woman of substance. I surrender to your amazing knowledge.

The many lives you have touched, the many lives you influence, the many lives you will continue to heal. I am grateful for the life of Heera. God bless you.

My husband pointed out how many of us have reached you by actively searching for you or seeking information. This is really amazing. Thank you for not giving up, instead helping others. You deserve all the love and joy Heera.

Dear Ms. Heera, Your life is Satyameva Jayate. It is an honour to know you as a fellow Indian. God bless you for all your goodness.

Hello Madam, I am a schoolteacher and read your blog to learn more and share with children. I pray I meet you soon. God bless you.

Admiration.

I had read that you grow into your face. Yours speaks of honesty, intelligence and kindness. Keep growing.

Madam I found you by chance. After reading human story of Kranti children I am changing my wrong views. Your presentation also is fantastic. God bless you for gift much dignity to children.

Dear Heera, I appreciate the person behind the interviews and articles. A special thanks for sharing your platform with Nirbhaya's parents. All the best.

I came across your site by chance. You were my junior in WCC and were crowned Freshie Queen. If I could crown you now it would be Ms. Original. You stand out for your courage and thought provoking content. You go girl.

Saw your song - decided to Google you – totally surprised to reach your blog - unusual combinations of words and thoughts - inspiring - love it – thanks.

Not everyone has to experience suffering and trauma. As humans, by learning more we can be empathetic. Thank you for putting your face and voice to talking about the ugly and good side of life.

I have seen most of your films, mostly Tamil. Great to see what you are doing. Truly Inspirational. Testimonials are the proof. God Bless!!

You are strength, courage, and inspiration personified. I thought of sharing what life has taught me: “Never ever look into the rear view mirror of life. The future has already arrived.” The best has already arrived! Best wishes!

Heera, i have gone through your complete article in the website and I am very much impressed. I wish you to lead calm and peaceful life. Thanks

Been a big admirer of your earlier movies but was completely unaware of your trials and tribulations. Nice to see you have fought your demons sla*** them and shone as an example to your peers.

Dear Heera, following you for long time and must admire for not once using a male actor’s photo to prop yourself. Great example for girl child. Keep it up.

Informative website with depth. Never expected from an Indian actress. Appreciated.

Hi Heera, first thanks for making us feel you are one of us. I second Anu John, truly remarkable. Indian women, especially educated, moreover you are a celebrity, will never talk about suffering. God bless.

While searching some information in net, accidentally landed in your website and when read the portion under ABOUT, felt so much of similarities with my life. God bless u

Dear HR, Thank you so much for having the guts to speak on topics that many shy away from. Wish I can speak to you more abt things so hope to hear from you soon. Good luck & keep up the great work.

Hi, Happened to the visit the website by chance. The content and thoughts (interviews) were impressive indeed. All the Best! Regards, Pratap

Just a big thanks to you for being such a inspiration to me. I was looking on issues of human rights when I bumped into your site. Thanks again and cheers!

Ms Heera - I have come across this website today while i was reading some thing on one indian news paper, special article on you about your personal events and this wonderful initiative.Great job!

God deals the harshest cards to people who will endure for betterment of others. I cannot thank you enough and can understand the sentiments of others here. Love to you.

Dear child, thanks from my wife and me for standing your ground. We lost our daughter to suicide but your voice is that of strength. Please never stop. Warm regards, Jacob

Hello Heera, I ran into your writings, could not stop from appreciating the inner strength you have shown to only become more complete. You will be taken as an inspiration for women of this country.

hi, i was a big fan of yours during my CA days. it is happy to find your site. Just to say hello, take care and good luck in all your endevours.

Watching documentaries is new for me; I found them boring and heavy. Now I respect the material; they make me think. Just wanted to share and say thanks.

You have made a man feel like he belongs. Thank you for speaking in a language we cannot express.

We wear masks to hide our abuse, acting in real life. You were an actress who is as real as it gets in real life. I am attempting to become real. Thanks Heera.

My son is an animal lover. Your latest interview gives us an insight into lives of creatures who cannot talk our language but have similar feelings. Thank you for your sensitivity and will to share.

Heeraji, Naya sal apke naam. Namaste

I respect you for your statement on the caste system. Thanks.

Your demeanor appeared different in the 90’s, so I am not surprised to see a unique website with helpful content. Keep shining and have an outstanding 2017.

I was watching Thiruda Thiruda again recently after 20 years or so. I looked you up as I was curious to find out where your life's journey has taken you. I am so glad to have found your writings. very candid and truthful. All the best.

Appreciate your blog. Engaging thoughts with deep content. Good luck.

I never considered the impact of circuses or eating meat for that matter, so tough to give it up. We need to find reasons to become kinder. I am trying now. Have a blessed life.

Amazing journey. Amazing work. Stay strong and best wishes.

Limpid soul. Shine on.

Dear Heera, was watching some old movie of yours on TV and on impulse googled to know what you were upto and whether you were still working in movies and read about your life story. You are a fighter and really proud of the way you have navigated your life and all your problems. Pls stay strong.

Best Wishes for you. Your messages are very interesting and deep. This one is what life appears to have taught me: for important things in life, you need money; for more important things in life, you need only mind.

Life has its ways of leading us. I spent time browsing your blog because I was intrigued by your looks and ended up finding a spiritual path to put my life and wealth to good use. I hope to pass along the goodness. Thank you.

Heraji, your blog exposing to different matters of life. thanks a lots.

I took my first step to a vegetarian diet and took my second to watching meaningful documentaries. Thanks Heera.

I waited to send a message because I wanted to contribute positivity. I volunteer at an orphanage. Incredibly fulfilling. I thought I was going to give them, instead the children are giving me EVERYTHING. Thank you for inspiring me.

It is truly enlightening to read your words and to lead ourselves with more integrity.

Hello Madame i am Tamil from Ceylon and living in Germany . I´m your big Fan since Idhayam 1991 , your words are true and wonderful , im also writer in german language and am so happy to meet you here in your Website. God bless you Madame

Dear Heera, thank you for the effort. Your website is a unique marriage of technology and human connection. Wishing you prosperity.

RESPECT.

Research shows that abuse is greatest within families. Your boldness is blinding, intimidating too. Great example for us, thanks.

My dear Heera, you are an unexpected, unconventional protagonist. Your truth and courage deserves to take you to great heights. God bless you.

Your life story makes me feel stronger.

Ms. Heeera, I was at Connemara hotel when you addressed the Rotary club. You seemed from a different world, wise beyond your age. When my colleagues prodded you about caste, you said curtly, “I am not cursed to oppress the human spirit.” Your consistent audacity is to be commended I hope you will consider coming back to spend time with young Rotarians. Thank you for living for a larger purpose.

Nam Tamil Pennu Heera k nanri.

In a society that values conformity, your conviction makes you stand out.

I never expected a glamorous woman to have a spine of steel and equally strong words to describe her ordeal. Keep up the good work. God bless.

Overwhelmed. For now only a mountain of thanks for your support to ordinary people like me. Inspiring blog.

One word: compelling.

Most would have crumbled under the weight of powerful people. But the process of dislodging the Birla bullet along with exposing family abuse has brought out the strength in you. Great example for women. Thank you for your courage. God bless.

Heera pls post my msg. I am still in shock from seeing you step out of an AUTO!! What an example of living minus pretenses. Thanks for talking to us. Your blog is truly an extension of you. We all can learn a thing or two by your unassuming nature!!

Unpretentious & informative & appealing. God bless.

Sometimes it is difficult to manage negativity of life. Your story touch me deeply. Hope to meet you someday.

I waited to send you a message. Your courage saw me through a horribly dark phase and I am getting stronger. May our Almighty shower his blessing on you.

We are strangers yet I feel only you understand me. Thanks for your life gifts.

Asian culture silence us which increases abuse in unmentionable forms. I was abused in many ways. Your courage and share is a strong support. Thanks mam.

Happened to watch Idhayam movie last night and my thought about you Ms Heera brought me here. My respect for you has increased. Hope you can continue to inspire more women to come out and fight for their rights. You are a fighter and you never give up. God Bless

Hi Heera!! Your thoughts have changed my thought process. Thankyou. Happy New Year! Cheers!

Unique perspective on varied topics. Thanks.

I am overwhelmed going through your blog. No words to describe my gratitude. You really are a great support. God bless you and keep up the insightful work.

Thank you Ms. Heera for opening your soul to educate people. I was abused as a child which sent me into a downward spiral. I am in therapy, trying to find myself. Some days are darker than I can deal with.

Women are the worst destroyers of women: female infanticide, dowry deaths, brothel madams, human trafficking, suicide bombers, apathetic female doctors, lawyers. Man and woman are the same and capable of same if not worse cruelty. Your honesty is commendable.

Interesting selection of thought provoking interviews. Thanks

The Heera I knew at WCC was a ball of contradictions, super quiet yet mischievous, rebellious yet obedient, private yet inclusive. I could not be more proud of your bold spirit and creative works. And I am sorry for all your suffering. Be well.

Respect is earned. Thankyou for being a fine example.

No sugar coating. No bull. Echoing similar sentiments of the people you speak for. Indian and also other Asian cultures crush the human spirit. We have to live this oppression each and every day to know it. Thanks for being a great support.

Hello. I landed on your blog by chance. It's generous of you to share various aspects of your life as sharing our stories leads us to collective empowerment. I wish you the best for the coming year.

I received a link to your site. At the cost of sounding repetitive, I must add that your uniquely powerful voice is refreshing. Having lost family myself, I know the pain. Time does not heal, it teaches you to navigate. With love, Arundhati

Just to say: thank you for sharing the works of filmmaker Kate Blewett.

Well presented array of topics. More courage to you Heera. Happy New Year 2018.

I appreciate you. As a retired teacher I know first hand that making a difference requires commitment and much more. Thank you.

Hi Heera!! Truly lost for words. The rawness of expressions is compelling. Thanks for baring your soul and walking your arduous walk.

Our communications being regular, this public message is for women rightly inspired by you. From the moment we were introduced in 2014, your conviction spoke. You do with agility, the job we are trained to do. Braveheart.

I am accept my life much more now because you are talking honestly. so my life struggle too making me strong.

Hi Heera, Very beautiful site. Have you ever considered writing short stories and directing them. We are in an era of digital platform. You could easily direct them and upload on youtube. I suggest you convert all your experiences into segments of short films with a script and turn into a director.

This is Madhu from Chennai. I am a mechanical engineer. Not sure how your name came up in our discussion. We goggled you. There is a lot I would like to share, for now from all of us I want to say: Respect to you.

Thank you for an informative collection of views.

I am fed up with gender roles subjugating woman. So very inspired to read bold views from bold women.

I have only known you as a celebrity, but today, I discovered the individual. I am sorry for your pain and thankful for your honesty.

Kudos for shutting the noise. I learnt to ignore projections, including family members, to stick with my dreams.

I am a survivor of violence in the family and partner violence. The years rebuilding my life were just as traumatic as even those who should have supported me rejected me. Your courage has won my respect. It is only caring that brings forth sharing. Stay blessed.